It’s been a several days since my last post, so there’s a
bit of catching up to do... I’ll try to keep the boring stuff brief. I’ll also try not to wait so long in between
posts anymore so I’m not so long-winded in the future. But I hope for now these tales are
interesting enough to keep your attention…
So last week ended well.
I was almost better by Friday, thankfully! On Friday, I met Jake at Berklee after my
Spanish classes and we had lunch together.
(I think Friday afternoons will become a lunch date tradition to
celebrate each completed week of classes, and finally a moment of downtime
together.) Earlier that day Jake had his
first recording session on the soundstage with professional musicians. He got 20 minutes with the musicians to
record his 1:30 min piece. His timeslot
was earlier in the day when I was in class, but he set up his phone and video
recorded the whole thing which we watched together on a park bench at lunch
time. They did about 4 or 5 takes
total. Then he brought me into the
studio to sit in on a couple of the other students’ sessions. The one kid who Jake helped with conducting
earlier that week asked if Jake would be there for his recording, so we went
and then stayed for a few others. I’m
so glad I get to be a part of Jakes world sometimes, and that the school is
cool with it. Jake and I have always
tried to make a point out of experiencing monumental things together. It bums us out, when one has to miss out on
an experience that is important to the other.
By the time we left the school it was too late to go home
and come back for choir, so we hit up the mall for an hour. We sat at McDonalds, which is apparently
considered “posh” here. J I was being a bit snotty. Not snotty-sick, just girly and moody. I didn’t know what had come over me. Last week was the first week that Jake felt
slammed with projects, and my routine of morning school and evening work had
begun. This was the first week in months
that we didn’t get to see each other much.
Jake and I have spent nearly every day since June together, and I think
it’s hard for us (particularly me) to go from together all the time to hardly
seeing each other. As the weekend came,
I didn’t realize how much I missed him throughout the week. Of course as makes perfect sense, my reaction
to my missing him, was being whiney and moody when I finally got time with him.
WOMEN!
But luckily by Saturday, my tantrums were finished and I had enough time
with Jake on Friday to give him space again on Saturday to work all day long on
his technology homework. He was at
school practically all day in the lab!
On our way to church on Sunday I told Jake, “You know… I
think I’m a little homesick.” It was a
feeling that I seriously have not felt since I was maybe in junior high. (But
then I just read the U.S. headlines, and thought, “Nevermind. I’d rather be here right now.” Haha… just kidding. This was Sunday, and I know the headlines didn’t
really start to get juicy until Monday! J) Luckily, an afternoon at the beach with Jake
later that day seemed to sooth all my sadness.
We left church right away to get to the beach. It was supposed to start cooling down after
last weekend, and we still had yet to go in the water. We’d been to the beach several times, but never
had gone there with bathing suits on or intention of going in the water. (Though after being there, we realized bathing
suits were not as essential as we had first thought!) We rushed out of church in order to have a
good amount of afternoon time at the beach.
Unfortunately, getting home that day was a disaster. We were taking the tram home in which we have
to make a transfer. We got to our
transfer with a few seconds to spare (so we thought), but the tram was nowhere
in sight. Did we miss it? Or is just late? So we waited…. And waited… and waited…. And finally
we decided to forget the tram and bike the rest of the way. Just as we picked up the bikes and I put my
stuff in the bike basket, our tram comes barreling down the tracks! So we slam our bikes back in their parking
slots, run across the tracks, and catch the tram. When we finally get home, we’re about to
enter our building, and I realize I’m missing something. Jake and I look at each other simultaneously
realizing that I left my devotional book in the bike basket as we rushed to get
on the tram. Jake knew this book was
important to me, so he decides we’ll go back hoping it’s still there. So we
rush back to our tram stop… but I was worried that it would be 10 minutes late
again and leave us sitting there for 20 minutes while in the meantime someone
is riding away in the sunset with my book!
So we thought we’d just bike back, but of course, there is not a single
bike out our bike station! So Jake ran
down the street to next bike station while I waited for the tram. We didn’t know who would get there first, but
time was ticking. So by the time he was
out of sight, I got on the tram. Jake
called me a few minutes later to say he got the book, and that I should meet
him, and we’d ride bikes back together.
Well, once I got to the place where I left the book he was nowhere in sight. Little did I know, he thought I was going to
get off at the next stop where there were bikes, and he would meet me there. Of course, I went all the way back in the
wrong direction to meet him. By the time
we got it figured out, I was still 20 minutes away, and Jake was at our door
waiting for me because I had the keys. So
much for getting to the beach on time. Uugghhff! But I tell you, by the time we finally got
there I was in heaven. Splashing around in
the cold and salty Mediterranean with my fun-loving, amazing husband was a
taste of paradise after a busy week apart!
We lay on the sand for a while after the water. We walked along the walkway hand-in-hand looking
for corn vendors. There are usually people
selling corn cooked on coals and smothered with salt!! Mmmm…. We intentionally brought exact change
for us each to get a cob of corn. Pure
bliss!
Then comes Monday, and we were back to the grind! Unfortunately, we had to get up super-duper
early to go to the police station to apply for my residency. This was a stressful process because I had
exactly 30 days to do this since arriving, and Monday was day 30! Meaning if something went wrong I could get
shipped back to the states!!! (Or at
least I was imagining that’s what would have happened. ;) There was a misunderstanding, and it put us racing
to the police station at 6:00am on my last day of my grace period to wait in
line hours before it opened to make sure I’d get in. According to the
description of the other students who’d been there already, the police station
looked incredibly ghetto with no signage!
Following the ever-so-faithful google maps, along with this personal
anecdote we camped out on this grungy corner, waiting for the gates to be opened. After 45 minutes of waiting and no other souls
in sight… no police or people supposed to be waiting in line… Jake did a little
more research to find out that google had failed us! Apparently we were supposed to be waiting way
down the street. So we journeyed from
our lonely perch to find a long line of people waiting like herded cattle in
front of the actual (yes, ghetto) police station! So basically we could have gotten up an hour
later to land in the exact same spot in line!!
We waited in line for another hour when a police officer finally came
out passing out tickets for people to come back tomorrow!! With not a day of wiggle room for this
residency application, I was so afraid that I would be given a “tomorrow”
ticket and thus be sent packin’. I had
no clue what was going on as the man yelled instructions in Spanish to the herd,
who all seemed nearly as confused as I was.
When I filed up to the police officer I timidly showed him my paperwork,
and he seemed to know exactly what I was here for because he pointed to another
line much shorter. Apparently we had
been once again standing in the wrong place, and essentially didn’t get into
the right place until 9:00am when the doors opened!! So I guess we didn’t really need to leave early
at all!! Luckily things went smoothly
from there. I was in and out by
9:45am. And I only missed one of my
Spanish classes for the day! Jake didn’t
have class until later, so he got to take a nap, and in the long run, all was
successful. I’m still living in Spain,
and did not get shipped back to the states.
J
Later that night I went to the church for the choir
auditions. My voice came back after last
week’s sickness! Woohoo! Afterwards, MariEli and I went out for copas y
tapas!! (basically drinks and
appetizers) We talked until late and I
was pretty tired by the time I got home, but it was so worth it!! She is so fun to be around! She loves speaking English, and she loves
helping me with my Spanish. We’ve
already gotten into the subjects of politics, economics, taboo religious
issues, and the personal stuff that you reserve only for people who seem truly
interested. Now I wait for the day when
I can speak about all that stuff in Spanish!
Bonnie and MariEli came over to our place for lunch on
Wednesday where we continued more great conversation. The two of them are like best friends, and I you’d
think I’d feel like a third wheel. But
no. I feel welcomed right into their “club”
as if they’ve known me for years. For
lunch, I decided to make them a typical American dish… Fajitas!! I told them that in the U.S. our diet
consists of Mexican two or three nights a week, Italian on the off days, and
maybe some good ole’ American hamburgers and fries on the weekends! The Spaniards seem to love Mexican food, because
they’re crazy about Taco Bell! And the
closest one to them is a 3 hour car-ride to Madrid! But they still talk about it! Knowing I can easily beat out Taco Bell, I
had a good feeling my dish would be a hit!
While I was dining over Mexican with the Spaniards, Jake was
dining over Spanish with the Brits. Jake
was invited to paella party with a few of his classmates. Paella is a popular Spanish rice dish, and
the students all made it together. I
love that we are both finding an outlet to be social with people we truly
enjoy!!
Outside of being social, Jake is working away on his
projects every moment he gets, and loving it!
He even lets me come into his little home studio, and I just lie on the bed
listening to him create. They are sweet
moments when I’m just lying there silently in my husband’s presence, surrounded
by his creativity as it unfolds. Since
meeting him, these have been some of my favorite moments in life. Every night that I know he’s been working on
something new, I make him play his stuff for me before he shuts down his
computer to go to bed. I’ve gotten mad
at him a few times for shutting down without telling me, and I make him reboot.
He is now trained to come get me before
he is done for the night. J I’m a very proud wifey if you couldn’t tell. At this very moment, he is working on another
piece to record on the soundstage, but this time it is 2:00 min and to an
actual movie clip. I guess every 2
weeks, they’ll be recording their pieces with professionals. Pretty cool!
As for my Spanish school, things are still rough regarding
my comprehension. But now I’m at least
more comfortable not being the newbie anymore.
However, my German friends are gone, and moved into another class this
week. My class this week consisted of a
Greek 18 year-old girl, an Italian woman in her thirties, a German man in his
50’s, and a Chinese kid in his 20’s. I
am understanding my classmates’ Spanish much better this week. Now I’m not sure if that’s because I’m
improving or because the whole class can no longer slip into German leaving me
to wonder when and why I stopped following the dialogue. Due to the national diversity in our class,
English is now the default when our Spanish fails us! Por suerte!!
Well, it’s very late, and I’ve babbled for long enough. There is much I’ve left out, but I’ll save
that for another time. Things are moving along, and I will try to
write more regularly so as to keep it shorter.
As for now I’ll have to leave it at … buenas noches!!